12 Tips To Win People to Your Way of Thinking

12 Tips To Win People to Your Way of Thinking

1.     The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it.

2.     Show respect for the other person’s opinion. Never say, “You’re wrong.”

3.     If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically.

4.     Begin in a friendly way.

5.     Get the other person saying “yes, yes” immediately.

6.     Let the other person do a great deal of the talking.

7.     Let the other person feel that the idea is his or hers.

8.     Try honestly to see things from the other person’s point of view.

9.     Be sympathetic with the other person’s ideas and desires.

10. Appeal to the nobler motives.

11. Dramatize your ideas.

12. Throw down a challenge.

Manifesting your own reality takes realizing what you want and leads you to gain the knowledge of how to get it.  When we win others over to our way of thinking, we treat other's ideas with respect and take responsibility for our mistakes.  If we do not have a teachable attitude we cannot manifest our version of reality.  If we do not win others over to our way of thinking in a respectful manner, we give our right to have what we want and we develop enemies.

          We need to get our priorities straight and think about how our actions affect others.  Do we want to manifest wealth, riches, finances, love, hope, etc…?  what exactly do we want?  I gather most people want to have peace, joy, and abundant living.  Can you have joy if you are constantly brow beating someone to believe your way?  Can you have peace if you steal from your employer?  Can you have abundant living when you spend more that you have and are constantly anxious about paying the bills?  Of course not.  Simply thinking correctly does not do it.  You must make the effort to put into practice the lessons you get from The Secret.  Try out the first 7 lessons for free!